As you date more women, one thing you’re
going to notice is that women will often ask you if
you think a woman nearby is pretty or hot. Sometimes
they are just curious, other times they do it as
a test. In the latter
case, it’s a lose-lose situation
for you. If you answer, “Yes”, then she may use it
as an excuse to get mad or jealous – even if she
has brought it on upon herself. If you say “no”,
she will know you are lying and lower her romantic
respect for you. And in the long run, lowering romantic
respect means lowering attraction.
But don’t worry. Today I’ll teach you how to answer this question!
The key is to give an answer that BOTH demonstrates your natural desire for women as a man AND let her hear what she wants to hear. You can do this by admitting the other woman is beautiful and then comparing her to your girlfriend. (Yes, of course you’re going to tell your girlfriend she is better than the other woman!)
Examples:
“Yeah…she’s pretty nice. But she’s not as pretty as you are…”
“Yeah, she’s hot. *Pause* You’re hotter though.”
“Yeah. Nice face. You’ve got nicer legs though.”
“Yeah, pretty face. But I think you have a nicer ass.” (Spank her playfully.)
As you see, you do not have to dread receiving “tests” from women. If you know the right answers, you can actually use your responses to build attraction!
Thanks, Marius Panzarella