The dating scene in Phoenix is hectic and at times confusing so we complied some facts, articles and Do’s and don’t to keep our viewers informed. With articles from Dr. Phil McGraw, Ashton Kutcher and respected scholars, we attempt to shed some light on a serious growing issue. According to Sperling’s best and worst places to date, Phoenix was rated #21 with more then 76% single rate. Why is dating so difficult then?
In a study by (Discover health) Carolyn Campbell, asked male and female students what they thought about the dating rules of the 21 century. 29 year old Emily says,”If there are rules, they are a non-conscious part of my ideology. I date vastly different people, I don’t know what common thread would align them on the rules scale”. 24 year old Sam says,” I can’t read women anymore. Some women want a man to act out the traditional chivalrous role, others are extremely independent and are offended if you open the door for them”.
For women it can be more difficult in the dating arena. A lot of things can go wrong for you more so than for the male counterpart. Men can be really bazar about a few things, so communication is essential in dating, not only do you need to know what your date needs and desires, but you also need to know how those things play into your life. Don’t get upset with your date if he/she hasn’t fulfilled your every need if you didn’t communicate those needs in the first place.
Dr. Phil’s new book,” Love smart: Find the one you want” he says “dating is simply one of the most inefficient, non-productive, haphazard, hit-or-miss ways to try to achieve one of the most important objectives of your entire life. Really, think about it. When you decide ‘I want to find a life partner, I want to get out there and make it happen,’ nobody has a plan,” he says. “So it’s like well, maybe i’ll just turn the corner and bump into somebody or I’ll go to a bunch of clubs and it’s loud and smoky and you can’t hear. That’s just like a meat market where you’re just hanging around watching people walking by. ” Dr. Phil says you must have a plan where you create what you want. ” That’s what ‘Love Smart’ is all about,” he says. ” Don’t love dumb, love smart. Have a plan and work your plan.”
Ashton Kutcher advice for women, from his Bazaar magazine column suggesting that he’s not the only man who likes women in skirts and dresses and fragrance free. “If I can smell your perfume and we’re not making out, you’re wearing to much. More of a lot of things in life is better. Perfume does not apply.” And, though he admits to liking women who cover up, he isn’t fond of what he calls the ‘Hilary Clinton look’.
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July 16th, 2008 at 11:44 pm
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September 10th, 2008 at 7:24 pm
When I look for love.. I am probably the pure form of “Blinded Love”.. Nearly all my friends have questioned who I am dating.. Seems like a womans apperiance is measured with me by how she carries herself, her personality, along with her just down right pressence.. Questionable to my friends as in “Why In The Hell” would I? Well truthfully, does it matter what my friends think about what my emotions/heart says? I have seen the dating scene from many of angles and alot of the times I have ran across the same situation that most of males & females are worried about what their friends think about who they are dating instead of what they think. My Personal Opinion is that dating, is not a sport, but it is very compeditive. Dating is a Meat Market and alot of people are trampled on through the course of Dating. Some people base their dating plan, outlook, or even down right opinion on what has happened to them, someone they know, or someone real close to them to where they are a little turned off to the idea of dating.. Thats why you get most of the women and men saying they need someone who knows what they want? Well honestly, think about it.. How do anyone of us know if the opposite sex wants us? Yes, by the first look, conversation, and or physical bond.. But, Answer this question, do you think that person will love the CRUST of yourself? Meaning, everyone is cool, when they don’t have to see that person day to day, night after night. But Do you think in the long run do you honestly think you can break some of the well known taboo’s that most couples are able to do freely infront of the life partner? Everyone “Yes” needs a plan on how they are going to approach the “Dating Scene” but do any of us need to have “A Plan For A Plan”? Mean dating is a plan in itself, all a person needs to do is know the area of what they want and don’t want.. In General, a person who goes into the dating scene with a drawn out plan is going to do nothing but cut of the right person for them by looking for the perfect person in the world. Perfections is not something Perfectly together.. The Best Quote I have ever heard of is this and it can be turned into for both men and woman. “If Your Busy Waiting For The Float With Miss America or Mister Universe On It Your Going To Let The Whole Parade Pass You By”!